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Tuesday, February 8, 2011

The Angry Sharer: I'm currently seeing a guy who recently told me he's also dating someone who has a boyfriend. Should I be upset?

Mocha: There are so many questions that arise. Are you two sexually active? What are the dynamics of your relationship?
What are you really upset about? That he's seeing someone else? Or the fact that she has a boyfriend? Why does that matter?
To answer your question, if you're not in a committed relationship, you're single. So he's actually free to do as he pleases and as long as he's safe what he does with another is irrelevant.
At least he's honest and is not trying to hide it.
If it bothers you, perhaps the "careless, open relationship" isn't for you.

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