Fed up: My husband and I have been together for three years. Married one year. I fell in love with him because he treated me like a queen and gave me the world. Shortly after we got married he lost his job and now I am the bread winner. Now he is a different man. He is always angry and we fight all the time about everything. I want out. Am I wrong to leave now that he has no job?
Mocha: This is not some guy you’re dating; this is your husband whom you made a vow to before God to cherish, through sickness and health, richer or poorer. Perhaps he is angry because you are making him feel like less than a man when he already feels bad that he cannot provide the lifestyle that he gave you. It’s your job as his wife to make him feel valid even though you have to pick up the slack. This is not a reason to leave. Every relationship goes through rough spot. Work it out. You wouldn’t want him to walk out on you if you were down.
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